How to Choose the Perfect Songs for Your Wedding Ceremony
When it comes to your wedding ceremony, it’s important to get the music right. Yet, many couples leave their ceremony music until the last minute—or don't give it the thoughtful planning it deserves. The truth is, the moments you and your guests will remember most are underscored by the perfect music soundtrack!
The right piano song can turn a simple walk down the aisle into a moment that gives everyone goosebumps — including you. As a wedding pianist who's had the joy of performing at ceremonies across Sydney and abroad, I've seen just how powerfully music weaves itself into the memory of a day. But with so many beautiful songs to choose from, how do you pick the ones that feel just right?
Here’s my simple guide to help you choose the perfect piano music for your ceremony — from the aisle walk to the final kiss.
1. Start Early: Why Ceremony Music Deserves Your Attention
It’s easy to get swept up planning flowers, seating charts, and catering—and push music to the bottom of the to‑do list. But ceremony music isn’t just background noise; it helps carry the emotion and make each moment feel more meaningful. By choosing your songs early, you:
Create a cohesive vibe: Align your music to your wedding theme and venue.
Reduce stress: Avoid last‑minute scrambles or rushed decisions.
Allow custom arrangements: Give your pianist time to craft personalised versions of your favourite songs.
2. Think in Moments, Not Just Songs
Rather than starting with a list of tracks, start with your ceremony structure. The most common musical moments are:
Pre-ceremony / guest arrival (ambient music as guests are seated)
Processional (bridesmaids, flower girl/page boy, and the bride entrance)
Lighting of the candles (optional)
Signing of the register
Recessional (walking back down the aisle as newlyweds)
Each of these moments can have its own mood. Some couples choose just one or two key songs; others curate a full sequence. Think about where you want emotion to swell, where you want lightness, and where you want something unique.
3. Reflect on Your Story Together
I always encourage couples to choose at least one song that’s personal — even if no one else knows the meaning. Ask yourselves:
Is there a song that reminds you of when you first met?
A lyric that captures your relationship perfectly?
A piano version of your favourite artist?
Even if it’s not a “classic wedding song,” I can usually arrange a piano version that’s elegant, emotional, and ceremony-ready. In fact, you'd be surprised how beautifully some upbeat or dance tracks translate when slowed down and stripped back — songs like ABBA’s “Dancing Queen” or Coldplay’s “A Sky Full of Stars” can sound incredibly romantic and tender when played acoustically on piano.
To explore the range of songs I already offer, feel free to browse my current repertoire. It’s a great place to get ideas and see what resonates with your vision. And if you already have something unique in mind, I’d love to chat about creating a custom arrangement just for you — enquire here to get started.
4. Choose a Mix of Familiar & Fresh
There’s a reason songs like “Canon in D”, “A Thousand Years”, or “Can’t Help Falling in Love” are so popular — they work! But don’t be afraid to mix in something modern, cinematic, or unexpected.
Some recent favourites from my weddings include:
“Turning Page” – Sleeping at Last
“The Prayer” – Andrea Bocelli and Celine Dion
“Kissing You – Des’ree (Romeo + Juliet)
“River Flows in You” – Yiruma
“All I Want” – Kodaline
Lately, I’ve also had a number of couples come to me with creative TikTok-inspired transitions — for example, starting with a traditional piece like “Wedding March”, then blending it into a surprise modern track halfway through. These kinds of mashups can add a beautiful “wow” moment and keep your guests emotionally engaged.
If you’ve seen a video or heard a version you love, don’t be afraid to share it with me. I’m always happy to explore whether it can be arranged and performed live on piano. The more time we have to plan something like this, the more polished and magical it will feel on the day.
Remember: the best ceremony soundtracks aren’t about trends — they’re about you.
5. Consider Live Piano vs. Recorded Versions
Having your music performed live adds a layer of warmth and intimacy that pre-recorded tracks simply can’t replicate. It also allows for flexibility — as a live pianist, I can adjust the music tempo to the pace of your walk, match the moment, and create seamless transitions.
If something takes longer than expected — say, a flower girl takes her time down the aisle or someone pauses with emotion — live music can adapt in real time, keeping everything feeling natural and smooth.
Live performance also enhances the atmosphere for your guests. The visual of a pianist performing, combined with the rich, resonant sound of a real instrument, adds a cinematic touch to the day. It becomes an experience, not just background music.
6. Ask for a Little Guidance (That’s What I’m Here For!)
If you’re feeling stuck, don’t worry. I offer personalised song suggestions for every couple, based on your taste, mood board, and ceremony style.
Whether you want timeless classics, a modern twist, or something completely unexpected, I can help guide your choices and adapt songs to fit your vibe.
Final Thought
Choosing your ceremony music isn’t just about filling silence — it’s about setting the tone for your love story. When it’s done right, those first few notes will stay with you and your guests long after the last dance.
If you’re planning your wedding and leaning toward timeless favourites or a modern, cinematic touch, I’d love to help you bring your musical vision to life. Reach out here to start the conversation, or explore my wedding music repertoire for some music inspo!
Now go forth and make your wedding soundtrack unforgettable!
— Elie